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[Read: Why we end up falling out of love in a relationship] And a few relationships later, I met another great guy.And within a few weeks of dating this new guy, I started seeing the same symptoms that I had seen in my earlier boyfriend, great guys who give great advice, but eventually turn into men who can never be pleased.[Read: The right way to have a perfect start to a new relationship] The mind of an insecure man It took me quite a few years to actually see what I was experiencing now and then with guys I date.Acknowledging the fact that you’re dating an insecure man is never easy.[Read: Signs to tell if he really is the right man for you] The problems of dating insecure men Insecure men are terribly jealous. In fact, they’ll make you feel like you’re being the bad one in the relationship.They’ll behave like they’re sacrificing so much for your happiness, and load you up with guilt.He was an exceptionally great guy who loved me and treated me like a princess. A few months into the relationship, he thought my friends were a bad influence on me.
Unfortunately, you’ll never see the signs or the real face under the mask of niceness until you’re ready to end the relationship or have already broken up with him.
But yet, they’re not bold enough to speak their mind.
Truthfully though, extremely insecure men have issues, serious issues that they may choose to overlook. So don’t try dating an insecure man with the hope of trying to change him. Signs of insecurity in men One of the biggest signs of insecure men is the lack of trust in the relationship.
A secure man wouldn’t be offended or threatened if his woman speaks to other guys *unless she’s had a sexual history with that guy*.
But if your man is insecure, chances are, he’ll tell you how lonely and awkward he felt when you were so busy talking and having fun with another guy. They look for ways to pierce your heart and get things done their way.
And then, it was the same with my job and with the amount of time I spent in office and how much I spend on shopping. But he always seemed hurt and pained when I went out without him. No matter what I did, unless I had his approval, he was always upset by something or the other. Nothing could ever please him, and he always had a way of pointing flaws in the things I did.